Have you ever thought about how envy affects your life? You read right: the envy. Someone has something that you do not have or can not have - and why do you envy him.
to envy someone means that we focus on what we want to be or have, not according to our own desires and needs. They do not come from inside ourselves, but from the outside so strongly that we want to own it or meet.
jealousy arises when we know not what we want to be and what we need to be happy. We do not know if we do not have the basic questions of our lives clarified for us:
Who am I really?
What makes me truly free and happy?
What do I need to be free and happy?
To make it even to stress once again: "What I need," and not "What have others that I could imitate them?"
The awakening of envy is one of the best strategies in the eternal manipulative game of life. Envy is the subject of many ambitious women, to encourage their men to ever greater achievements. Envy is a subject that drives many people to action.
Either you exert himself in order to get what someone has that you envy. If you own it eventually, it will not long before anyone else again brings your envy and the game starts over.
Or envy of aggression: one gets from those who own something by force what they covet.
We all are exposed every day and in many ways the envy of pulses. All that we want to sell ideas, products, safety or creeds are constantly working in us to bring needs and desires. You try it with arguments.
you try it with beautiful images and sayings. You try it, by making us fear or by arousing our envy.
you do it by they entice us to compare. Their message is: "There is someone who has something that you just have to have to just as good and beautiful, young and healthy and rich like him." These examples show us on cigarette packs and posters.
And of course every day on TV: The man in the car even more elegant. The young woman with the seductive scent.
The teenager, who is nibbling happily at a chocolate bar, to the envy of his friends. Who does not know what they really want and need, it has not actually easy to resist all this envy-pulses.
Find your own way with the help of Self-analysis?
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