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Whatever we want to achieve in life will eventually once obstacles. Even if we We still have so cheerfully on the path, there comes the moment of doubt.

In this crisis, you should be prepared so you will not fail. The best preparation is to make people aware that every crisis requires a decision. The decision: "I am fleeing from it or do I overcome it?"

If you decide to run, you should have no false expectations. No escape, and if they initially appear so enticing solves your problem. The problem is in you and support you.

it can displace or forgotten for some time, but it's always there and has Them. You can escape a problem only if you solve it. That should make you aware before you take flight.

And there's something you should know this: Any successful attempt to solve a problem is a training step to strengthen your self-confidence. Each flight is a training step to weaken your self-confidence.

the moment of crisis we tend to persuade us an escape as a solution. To prevent this self-deception, it is useful to expose the flight in time as such.

Below are the five most frequent escape variants: first

The flight to the work: busy, the money, the gute Ruf und der Erfolg, den Sie damit erringen, mögen Ihnen die Bewunderung Ihrer Mitwelt einbringen. Aber wenn Sie das persönliche Glück als Ihr wichtigstes Lebensziel betrachten, ist es wichtiger, zuerst an sich selbst und dann erst an die anderen zu denken.

2. Die Flucht in die Autorität: Wenn Sie Ihre eigenen Wünsche kraft Ihrer Autorität bei anderen Menschen durchsetzen, bedeutet es sehr oft nichts anderes, als dass, Sie andere erniedrigen, um sich Selbst zu erhöhen.
Aber niemand kann glücklich sein, wenn er andere unglücklich macht.

Die Autorität, die Sie durch Ihr Wissen bei anderen erlangen, ist oft nur ein Ersatz für das Versäumnis, to know everything about themselves.

third The flight into forgetting: forgetting a problem is, nothing more than to drive out for some time out of consciousness. But your subconscious mind forgets only solved problems.

4th The flight into the distance: If you do not there are happy where you are, you will not even in the most beautiful country in the world be happier.

5th The flight to the projection: If you are the victory of a hero that you identify yourself, now even the happy, this happiness is over when one day he will be the loser and find a new hero must.

He wins the victory for you, which you do not trust themselves.